my experience with
AMBER LEA OWENS
my experience with
AMBER LEA OWENS
The Purpose
The purpose of this website is not to publicly shame Amber Lea Owens, or expose any of her secrets.
I have always strived to protect her
The Purpose
The purpose of this website is not to publicly shame Amber Lea Owens, or expose any of her secrets.
I have always strived pto protect her
We broke up at 3:00am on June 16th, 2024
Within hours, she had launched a one-sided personal war on me. She has been harassing me by spreading manipulated partial-truths, and complete lies directly to;
• Many of my family members
• My business associates
• My business clients
• Former clients
• My landlord
• My landlord’s brother (didn’t even know I existed)
• The employer to my landlord’s brother
• Others I am still learning about
• My business associates
• My business clients
• Former clients
• My landlord
• My landlord’s brother (didn’t even know I existed)
• The employer to my landlord’s brother
• Others I am still learning about
The attacks began
We broke up at 3:00am on June 16th, 2024
Within hours, she had launched a one-sided personal war on me. She has been harassing me by spreading manipulated partial-truths, and complete lies directly to;
• Many of my family members
• My business associates
• My business clients
• Former clients
• My landlord
• My landlord’s brother (didn’t even know I existed)
• The employer to my landlord’s brother
• Others I am still learning about
• My business associates
• My business clients
• Former clients
• My landlord
• My landlord’s brother (didn’t even know I existed)
• The employer to my landlord’s brother
• Others I am still learning about
The full scale attack began
False Accusations of Cheating
False Accusations of Cheating
From the moment we went official, I immediately killed off all conversations with any other potential partners, refrained from flirting with anyone else, and refused to allow anyone into my life that could threaten what Amber and I were building, and went as far as to not even take photos of any other females while we built our relationship. The same CANNOT be said for Amber.
Throughout the majority of our relationship, she has gaslit me with a constant flow of false accusations of cheating - which I later discovered was an attempt to keep me away from the fact that she has embraced three different men, besides me over the course of our 7mo relationship.
False Accusations of Abuse
False Accusations of Abuse
I have practiced an abundance of gentle patience, refraining from calling her names, from using derogatory language during our disagreements, never raised my voice, and never laid hands on her - not even once.
She has accused me of mentally, emotionally, and physically abusing her to my sisters, my mother, and many other unrelated parties, in an attempt to turn my family against me - likely because she says she never had one. Meanwhile, I faced a constant stream of name calling, derogatory language, and abhorrent remarks - such as telling me to kill myself, that my father is dead because of me, and many others - as well as light physical contact during her uncontrolled rage.
She has accused me of mentally, emotionally, and physically abusing her to my sisters, my mother, and many other unrelated parties, in an attempt to turn my family against me - likely because she says she never had one. Meanwhile, I faced a constant stream of name calling, derogatory language, and abhorrent remarks - such as telling me to kill myself, that my father is dead because of me, and many others - as well as light physical contact during her uncontrolled rage.
False Accusations of Predatory Behavior
False Accusations of Predatory Behavior
This one is what gets me the most, and she knows it. Having grown up with four sisters, and a widowed mother - I have an absolute hatred for sexual predators. She has spread lies to my family, falsely claiming that I have engaged in predatory behavior, which is far from the truth.
I strive to ensure that every single woman that I take photos of feels safe on set, as well as ensure that every time a female enters my car, they have a safe, and comfortable experience.
I strive to ensure that every single woman that I take photos of feels safe on set, as well as ensure that every time a female enters my car, they have a safe, and comfortable experience.
THE WORST PART ABOUT ALL OF THIS
is loosing my best friend, and being conflicted with a whirlwind of contrasting emotions; from having absolute distain for her actions in my life, to simply hitting a wall of heartache when I realize that I can’t go to text her after driving for a while.
I built my entire life around this woman, made immense sacrifices to give her what she needed, and had plans to spend my life with her. We fit so well together in everything that didn’t actually matter.
Now, I am left alone – filled with heartache, and anger over her utter betrayal, and constant malice.
The Recordings
A few months into our relationship, we began to have verbal disagreements. One day, she tells me “You wanna know how stupid you sound? I have recordings of you that you don’t know about."
"I’ll play them” - Amber
That’s when I began to get the feeling that she has a deep seeded manipulative nature, and realized that she’ll likely weaponize these (and future) recordings if we ever broke up, so I decided to only way to protect myself, was to begin recording our fights too - not to attack her, but to defend against her. Since then, we have had an agreement to record our disagreements.
Amber stating that I never abused her - despite her telling my family that I was physically abusive.
Amber being verbally abusive towards me. This was a common trend, with horrific statements constantly being made.
Amber causing self-harm, and being physically violent at a rental property.
This is when I decided to confront Amber about her being physically intimate with three other men during our relationship. At this point, I didn't know any of it was true, until she confirmed it here.
This is when I discovered that for a couple of weeks, she was not just sleeping with her ex, but that she was dating both me, him.
This is a continuation of that conversation - where I discovered that the reason she was constantly accusing me of cheating, and gaslighting her - was because she was hiding that second relationship with her ex from me.
Going through these videos to transcribe them is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do – to hear the voice of the one person I love most in life, in tears, fighting for me to take her back… and what hurts the most… I did… I took her back, and here I am, drenched in her manipulative lies. All I ever wanted was to love her, and see her grow, and heal from her past.
How do you continue to edit footage that brings you back to the brink of tears?
Going through these videos to transcribe them is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do – to hear the voice of the one person I love most in life, in tears, fighting for me to take her back… and what hurts the most… I did… I took her back, and here I am, drenched in her manipulative lies. All I ever wanted was to love her, and see her grow, and heal from her past.
How do you continue to edit footage that brings you back to the brink of tears?
Employment Notice
If you are a future potential employer of Amber Lea Owens, I’d encourage you to overlook this abhorrent behavior – she is a very hard worker, and she has always told me that she excels at her work. If you’re considering a romantic relationship with her, I will tell you what a random unknown stranger told me on Facebook once we went public with our commitment to each other; “Run dude. Run as far from her as you can”.
History with the law
She did a full criminal background check on me before we started dating (which came up clean), and I wish I had done the same to her. If I had, I would have found an extensive wrap sheet – including arrests for Destruction of Property (similar to what I’m facing now with her refusing to return $750 worth of my belongings), Assault Charges, Felony Theft, and multiple Animal Cruelty charges.
(view the animal abuse conviction)
(view the felony conviction)
I did not have the resources, knowledge, or desire to ever look up her criminal background – but it is publicly accessible, and this may serve to be an important factor for future partners to consider.
I genuinely wish Amber Lea Owens the best in life, and want to see her heal, and find personal success in everything she pursues. I absolutely hate the idea of speaking poorly of her – but this website stands as a defense to the lies she’s been spreading about me.
History with the law
She did a full criminal background check on me before we started dating (which came up clean), and I wish I had done the same to her. If I had, I would have found an extensive wrap sheet – including arrests for Destruction of Property (similar to what I’m facing now with her refusing to return $750 worth of my belongings), Assault Charges, Felony Theft, and multiple Animal Cruelty charges.
(view the animal abuse conviction)
(view the felony conviction)
I did not have the resources, knowledge, or desire to ever look up her criminal background – but it is publicly accessible, and this may serve to be an important factor for future partners to consider.
I genuinely wish Amber Lea Owens the best in life, and want to see her heal, and find personal success in everything she pursues. I absolutely hate the idea of speaking poorly of her – but this website stands as a defense to the lies she’s been spreading about me.
I will always love her.